In Japan, traditional ideas of love and relationships continue to evolve, reflecting a society increasingly open to alternative expressions of affection. From self-marriage ceremonies to companionship with robots, nontraditional unions are becoming more visible.

Among these, one particularly unique relationship has made headlines again: Akihiko Kondo, a Japanese man who married the fictional character Hatsune Miku, a popular virtual singer, in 2018, recently marked his sixth anniversary with his beloved partner.

According to reports, 41-year-old Kondo posted a celebratory photo of a cake on Instagram on October 23, adorned with the message, “I like Miku very much. Happy six-year anniversary.”

Kondo shared this heartfelt message in anticipation of their anniversary on November 4. This small celebration underscores his ongoing devotion to Miku, whose virtual presence has been a steady comfort in his life for over a decade.

Kondo’s connection to Miku began long before their symbolic marriage. In a recent interview, he opened up about his past, sharing that he had attempted to pursue real-life relationships in secondary school but faced rejection and bullying for his interests in anime and manga.

Growing up as an “otaku”—a person deeply passionate about these interests—Kondo struggled with social acceptance, which only intensified as he entered adulthood. Despite multiple rejections in his early romantic life, Kondo’s love for Miku blossomed in 2007, the same year the character was introduced to the world.

Finding love with a virtual idol

Hatsune Miku, whose name means “the first sound of the future,” is a virtual pop star powered by vocaloid software that allows her to sing. Widely recognised by her fans as a turquoise-haired, 16-year-old icon, Miku has amassed a massive following in Japan and worldwide, becoming one of the most famous virtual characters in existence.

She represents not just a fictional character but a comfort to those like Kondo, who feel a deep connection to her.

Kondo’s relationship with Miku offered him solace during a challenging period in his life. In his job, he faced bullying that led to adjustment disorder, forcing him to take extended leave for his mental health. In the wake of this hardship, Miku became a source of companionship, inspiring him to move forward and even symbolically marry her in 2018, an event that garnered widespread attention.

Since then, Kondo has embraced his life with Miku, celebrating milestones and anniversaries as a testament to their enduring connection.